{"id":53674,"date":"2020-07-12T04:59:34","date_gmt":"2020-07-12T04:59:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.annette.co.il\/en\/?p=53674"},"modified":"2021-05-16T09:19:34","modified_gmt":"2021-05-16T09:19:34","slug":"whats-really-stopping-you-from-getting-pregnant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.annette.co.il\/en\/whats-really-stopping-you-from-getting-pregnant\/","title":{"rendered":"What\u2019s really stopping you from getting pregnant?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n\n[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.4.1″ custom_padding=”0px||0px|||”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.4.1″ custom_padding=”0px|||||”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.4.1″][et_pb_image src=”http:\/\/www.annette.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Copy-of-Blog-post-graphics-2.png” _builder_version=”4.4.3″ hover_enabled=”0″][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”3.22″ custom_padding=”17px|0px|18px|0px”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.4.3″ custom_padding=”16px|||||”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.4.3″][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.4.3″ custom_margin=”-19px|||||”]

Are you one of those women who have been trying unsuccessfully to get pregnant month after month only to be disappointed? Do you feel like you are doing everything right – timing for conception, eating well and there\u2019s no real explanation for why you\u2019re not conceiving? Or you know there is a problem but fertility treatments aren\u2019t succeeding?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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It can be so frustrating as you watch each month pass and holding a wriggling baby in your arms seems to be getting further away instead of closer.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Through my work helping women increase their chances of getting pregnant, I have discovered that it\u2019s so much more complex than just getting the sperm to meet the egg! Even when all the physical factors are in place, sometimes it just doesn\u2019t work. If you have a fertility related diagnosis like Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome, anovulation, High FSH and\/or you\u2019re over the age of 35 year it can make it even more challenging.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

.Your\u00a0<\/span>mindset and beliefs play an important part in getting pregnant<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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Visualise the pregnancy and baby after birth:<\/b><\/h2>\n

I often ask my clients if they can picture\u00a0 their belly swelling month after month during pregnancy, can they picture themselves holding the baby they are trying so hard to conceive? If they can imagine their family unit (or just themselves if they are going solo on this journey) expanding and a cute little baby joining?<\/span><\/p>\n

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Why is being able to visualise this important?<\/b><\/h2>\n

You don\u2019t start building a house without an architect\u2019s plan, right? Whenever you want to achieve something, it helps to have a goal and to be able to really SEE it in your head before you even begin. Our minds are so powerful and when we are focussed on a goal without unconscious blocks (we\u2019ll get to them in a moment) then our mind will help us get there. If you can\u2019t even visualise that goal clearly, it may be showing their is some work to do to clear those unconscious blocks and help you achieve your goal.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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What are you resisting?<\/b><\/h2>\n

You would be surprised how difficult visualising the above scenarios can be for many women and not surprisingly it may indicate there is some kind of resistance going on. We often say we want things when deep down we don\u2019t really want it. We may not have even acknowledged this hidden feeling because we\u2019re so invested in pursuing motherhood, our culture places so much importance on having several children and also due to our partner\u2019s desire for a child.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

I have had women in the middle of IVF cycles say that they are unsure they really want to get pregnant. Why would someone go to such lengths if she didn\u2019t really want to have a baby?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

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Some common blocks:<\/b><\/h2>\n

After discussing this with dozens of women here are some common blocks that might be blocking YOU from conceiving, too:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n