{"id":53702,"date":"2020-07-23T15:06:44","date_gmt":"2020-07-23T15:06:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.annette.co.il\/en\/?p=53702"},"modified":"2021-05-16T09:22:58","modified_gmt":"2021-05-16T09:22:58","slug":"post-partum-whos-looking-after-the-mother","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.annette.co.il\/en\/post-partum-whos-looking-after-the-mother\/","title":{"rendered":"Post-partum &#8211; Who&#8217;s looking after the mother?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.22&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;17px|0px|18px|0px&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.3&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;16px||53px|||&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.3&#8243;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.3&#8243; custom_margin=&#8221;-19px|||||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||2px|||&#8221; inline_fonts=&#8221;gveret&#8221;]<p><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Giving birth can be the most exhilarating, emotional and life changing event ever. It can also be exhausting, traumatic and disappointing. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you\u2019re feeling vulnerable after birth, it\u2019s totally normal. You have been through nine months of physical and emotional change and the post partum period is yet another adjustment.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: large;\">Unfortunately, all the focus is on the baby and you as the mother can be unintentionally neglected. When I speak to women during this time I like to remind them that it\u2019s time to pay attention to our most basic needs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: gveret; font-weight: normal; font-size: xx-large; color: #ff8fab;\"><b>Help! I\u2019m so tired!\u00a0<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: large;\">It\u2019s no surprise you are tired when caring for a baby around the clock. Please take your mother (or mother in law\u2019s) advice and sleep when the baby sleeps at least once a day. Yes, there are chores that need to be done but they can be done by someone else OR wait till later.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: large;\">The other option is simply going to bed earlier so compensate for broken sleep. Again, that may mean you miss out on something else you wanted to do but think how much better you will feel after sleeping a bit more.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: large;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: xx-large; font-family: gveret; font-weight: normal; color: #ff8fab;\"><b>Who\u2019s making dinner?<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In my community, a new mother will often receive several weeks worth of meals from neighbours, friends and shul members. Eating well after birth is so important. Your body is recovering from pregnancy and labour and you may be breastfeeding. Either way your body needs as many nutrients, vitamins and minerals as possible. Popping a prenatal is not going to make up for the shortfall. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My quick tips for eating better with limited time:\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: large;\">When you do cook, make double portions and freeze<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: large;\">If you have older children and you\u2019re making them food to take to school, make some for yourself at the same time.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: large;\">Do a bit of food preparation in the evening when someone else is around to help with the baby<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: large;\">Turn last night\u2019s dinner into today\u2019s lunch for you.<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;|auto|-80px|auto||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;15px|0px|27px|0px&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;http:\/\/www.annette.co.il\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Copy-of-Blog-post-graphics-1.png&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.3&#8243; custom_margin=&#8221;2px||21px|||&#8221; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; width=&#8221;55%&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;center&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;|186px|-80px|auto||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;15px|0px|89px|0px||&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.3&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|||||&#8221;]<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: large;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p dir=\"rtl\" class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\" style=\"font-size: large;\"><span class=\"Apple-converted-space\"><\/span><\/span><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;|186px|-80px|auto||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;15px|0px|89px|0px||&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.3&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;0px|||||&#8221; inline_fonts=&#8221;gveret&#8221;]<p><b style=\"color: #ff8fab; font-family: gveret; font-size: xx-large;\">Accepting and asking for help<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: large;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large;\">It\u2019s so deeply ingrained into our psyche to be strong and to help others that being in that vulnerable position of accepting help and especially asking for help feels really hard.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: large;\">I like to think of it as give and take. There are times in our life when we are the givers and times when we are the takers. And that is 100% okay. That is the circle of life. When we accept help, we are also giving the other person the chance to do a good deed.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: large;\">Learning to ask for help when we need it shows maturity, humility and is actually excellent role modelling for our children. We want them to ask and receive the help they need so we need to show them we can do the same. Like anything, the more you do it, the easier it gets.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-size: large;\">I love helping women navigate the adjustment to caring for a new baby by focusing on their physical and emotional needs. I use a combination of massage and reflexology to support their body return to a new normal. Because we\u2019re never exactly as we were before a pregnancy. And that\u2019s okay.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The tight shoulders from breastfeeding in strange positions or holding your baby for a long time and all the changes your womb is going through following 9 months of pregnancy and birth can be relieved with gentle nurturing massage and reflexology. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I especially love it when a client who I treated during pregnancy arrives with her baby.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Giving birth can be the most exhilarating, emotional and life changing event ever. It can also be exhausting, traumatic and disappointing. <\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re feeling vulnerable after birth, it\u2019s totally normal. 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